Exploring Pleasure: The Modified Missionary and Beyond for Sensational Anal Play
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Introduction
Depending on the gender and anatomy of the receiver, the overall experience of a particular sex position would vary from person to person. However, I will be sharing one anal sex
position that can provide a lot of clitoral or prostate stimulation.
First and foremost, a couple of pointers to remember before we go into this, it is important to remember that anal sex is not something all/ your partner would be into, hence it is extremely important to get consent before trying it. It is important to also note that there are high risks of injury and infection transmission so take precautions by stocking up on lubricants (silicone, water or oil-based are safe to use for anal sex) since the anus is NOT a self-lubricating opening like the vagina. Use a condom to prevent any unwanted risks of infections.
One final instruction is that the anus takes time to accommodate the entire penis, so take it very slowly, from massaging around the anus to fingering with a lubricant to finally slow penile thrusts. Always remember to check on your partner as you go.
That being said, the modified missionary position is a sex position where the receiver lies on their back with their legs raised and spread apart, much like an overturned beetle while the penetrating partner enters from above would be the ideal position to start with. The giver can enter either by kneeling between the receiver’s legs or by lying on top of them
This position allows for deeper penetration and provides direct stimulation to the prostate for a male-bodied receiver or the G-spot in a female-bodied one.
It is also a great option for those looking for a very intimate position, as both partners are facing each other.
If this position is too physically demanding or intimate for you, the doggy-style position, wherein the receiving partner is on all fours and the giver is kneeling right behind the receiver and enters from behind. This is a great alternative since it does not require a lot of flexibility, provides easy access to the anus and this position also allows for deep penetration which can provide greater stimulation to the G-spot or prostate. Placing a wedge pillow or a cushion underneath the receiver’s lower back would make the act more comfortable for both partners.
Other options to try are the spooning position, which is simple and does not require bending, or if the receiver is on the heavier side. The reverse cowgirl position is also known to be quite pleasurable but has a high risk of injury for penis owners
Is it a beginner, intermediate or advanced-level position?
The Modified Missionary position can be considered an intermediate-level position, as it requires some flexibility and can be physically demanding for the receiver to hold their legs up. However, with the help of pillows or a sex wedge (a triangular-shaped pillow designed to support the body during sex), it elevates the hips and creates a better angle for penetration.
With patience and practice, the modified missionary position can be a pleasurable and enjoyable position for anal sex. Also, make sure to use plenty of lube and take breaks if needed to prevent discomfort or pain.
Are there modifications or toys that can be incorporated into the position?
As mentioned above, using a pillow or a sex wedge would be helpful as the receiver’s legs can get tired during the modified missionary position, so it can be helpful to use pillows or cushions to support the legs and elevate the hips. This can also create a more comfortable angle of penetration.
A different modification that can be incorporated is experimenting with different angles during penetration. The penetrating partner can adjust their angle of penetration to target the prostate or G-spot.
Of course, creating a relaxed surrounding would be the very first thing to start with, besides that, nipple stimulation, neck stimulation, fingering the vagina along with anal penetration would amp up the pleasure, additionally, prostate massager can enhance the experience and provide additional stimulation. The receiver can also use a vibrator or dildo to stimulate the clitoris or prostate during penetration. Adding in a butt plug while engaging in vaginal penetration works as great anal play as well.
Always remember that communication between partners is of utmost importance especially when trying a moderately difficult position as well as consent.